Life of an Exotic Dance Instructor

Music To Play During Striptease

2011-06-20T15:28:00.000-07:00

Eye Contact, Starting Your Day, Feeling Sexy, Building Confidence For yo...

2011-06-02T16:16:00.000-07:00

What To Wear During A Sexy Striptease Lap Dance Pole Routine-Costume, Li...

2011-05-19T15:42:00.000-07:00

How to Start a Stripteaese Lap Dance for your Partner

2011-05-16T16:41:00.000-07:00

Happy Holidays & My New Years Resolution is to BLOG A lot MORE...

2009-12-15T16:41:00.000-08:00

Happy Holidays. Wow so much has happened in the last few months. This last weekend I went to Austin & Dallas Texas. It was my first time in Texas. I went to visit a old roommate. I had a blast. We also went to Dallas to the new stadium and saw the Chargers WIN. I can't wait to go back. I can't believe it is the end of the year and almost 2010. Where does time go....A great 2009. I finally finished my 2 how to striptease and lap dance DVD's the beginning of the year. You can buy them on ebyresa.com, Amazon.com search striptease and at my classes and events. Holiday Special- Ends the end of the year. How to Striptease DVD $19.99 & How to Lap Dance DVD $24.99. Buy BOTH Now for ONLY $30.00. Email me at ebyresa@hotmail.com This year I met many unbelievable women who took my teaser classes, Striptease 101 and went to my sexy women and wine events and at home parties. 2010 will be a new great year. This year is a huge year for many new romances, bachelorette parties, weddings, anniversaries. Please think of me for at home parties, DVD's, classes, gift certificates plus more. EbyResa has been in business since 2005. I have loved every moment of it. So much more to come in 2010. January 7th at Cask Room will be the first Sexy Women and Wine Event. I will start Teaser Workshops Intro $10.00 Classes in January and the Striptease 101 3.5 Hr Workshop mid January. Check ebyresa.com and calender for updates or meetup.com/ebyresa January 31 is the next 3 hour Blow Him Away & Lap Dance Workshop. SPECIAL if you prepay by the end of the year you save $10.00 to $20.00. http://bjlapj31.eventbrite.com/
My goals for my biz is to find another location to teach. I started teaching some workshops at a lingerie shop. Would love to find another lingerie shop or boutique shop in SD. If you know any please update me. I want to get my 2 how to DVD's in all sex, lingerie, wedding, boutique shops. I want all concierges in San Diego, OC and LA to know about ebyresa.com- classes, DVD's and at home parties. I also am working and going to finish and produce the cards on 52 ways to striptease and 52 ways to lap dance.
I just watched the movie Julie & Julia last night. It was about the cook Julia and blogging. It made realize that I want and should start blogging weekly or even daily. Hope you will all follow and comment and spread the word about my blog. I also do video blogs on youtube. Next year I will start doing Flirty Friday video blogs every Friday. Check it out. I will update you. Thanks for a great 2009 and can't wait for many more.....I will write soon....

SAVE THE DATE Tuesday October 20th Voyeur Night Club I will be Performing

2009-09-28T16:18:00.000-07:00

Hello, So its been a little over a month since I wrote. A lot has happened since a month ago. I rented my rental. Woo Hoo. Right after I wrote that last blog I got it rented. One of the girls stayed so I needed to rent 2 of the rooms and I did. I hope they stay for a while. Now that it is rented I can relax a little bit. I really wanted to go burning man and my friends had a blast but I will go next year. In a couple weeks I am going to a 2 day camping mini burning man called decom. The last month work has been good. I have been busy teaching parties, selling DVD's and working daily on my biz. Striptease 101 DVD is on Amazon. I am working on the other on and I need more keywords on create space to get it up the list on Amazon. Please check my site or amazon and buy your DVD's now. Great for you to practice and home and great presents for bachelorette, bridal, birthday, just cause or the holidays. Tonight I have my 2nd class on Sexy women and Wine. Last week there were 5 girls. It was a lot of fun. Tonight is the tease class- doing the same moves from last week and using the wall instead of the pole. Next Monday is lap dancing. Fun!! This Thursday is my monthly FREE event Sexy Women and Wine at Syrah Wine Bar. Right now there are about 15 rsvps. If you are a sexy women come on out... I am trying to take it easy during the week and work out a lot. I started this work out class a couple months ago called the bar method. It is a mixture of pilates, yoga, stretching and ballet. I love it. I am also doing a little more cardio. I love food and I eat pretty well when I am home but when I am out I eat and enjoy my wine. I am going to try real hard the next 2 months to do the bar method 3 times a week, cardio 3 times a week and eat at home more and eat really good. I want to get real fit and see the results right before the holidays. I am feeling good and already seeing results but want to see more. My website is coming a long. Working on getting all the dvd clips on the site to sell. I also want to start working on that referral sexy site. I want to find a web guy who would be interested in getting it off the ground with me. That is the thing I always have lots of ideas but I need to put it in action. Business coaching is also in the works. I have been meeting and helping a handful of people on their businesses and ideas. I just love it. I love biz, marketing and helping people. If interested get in touch. It is only $99.00 consultation. SAVE THE DATE Tuesday October 20th at 6:30pm Rebecca with Hot Girl and myself will be performing a striptease lap dance lesson at Essentially Pinks Breast Awareness Event. I am so looking forward to it. We will be dressing sexy, doing some great moves and supporting this event. Please come out to support. I will be selling my 2 How to DVD's and Tshirts. Please email me if you have ideas. Talk to you soon. Resa

End Of Summer Special At Home Parties

2009-08-19T14:03:00.000-07:00

Hi Today is August 19th. Lately I have been thinking a lot during hard times and figuring out what is important to me. I know I love San Diego, my family, my friends, my pug Bailey, love cooking and enjoying other restaurants, traveling, enjoying wine. I started reading more and started a new book club. I also love what I teach. I feel like my striptease lap dance lessons is not a job. Every time I teach a workshop and meet the new women and see them smile and shine it makes me feel like I did something great that day. This is bachelorette season so I have been teaching a party almost every weekend. I am pretty happy that I am keeping myself busy during this recession. We all wish were busier. I am grateful for what I have been doing. I also love the marketing aspect of my business. I love getting on the computer and advertising all over the internet to get ebyresa and striptease lap dance lessons on top of the search engines. I have a couple summer specials going on.I started a $10.00 Intro Teaser Striptease Class. Most women who take this class will sign up for another workshop. Most are taking the 3.5 Striptease 101 Class and buying the DVD's. Monday I had 6 girls join the class. It was awesome. My at home parties during the week are $50.00 OFF. Sunday thru Wednesday an at home party is $15.00 per girl instead of $20.00 per girl for an hour min 10 girls. If less than 10 girls it is $150.00. You pick the location, girls, food , drinks ect and I come out and teach the party. The one on one lessons are also on Summer Discount. $50.00 an hour instead of $69.00. Spread the word. I am excited t see where ebyresa takes me. I just love it and can't wait for it to grow. During this time I know I would love to teach my classes all over the world and travel while doing it. I feel like my condo DT won't let me do that unless I sell it. I decided in a couple years ( if the real estate market levels out) I can sell it and move back to my rental in Serra Mesa or move to a one bedroom apartment no more than $1000.00 a month. Than I can travel and not feel stuck. Right now I am trying to rent my rental. I usually get it rented right away. Not this time. It shows that people can't afford it and there are many more houses and condos on the market. Tough times. Because I can't rent it, I decided not to go to burning man this year. It's been a stressful month and I feel like if I go I wouldn't be focusing on what I need to focus on. Renting it out or getting some one in that week. I feel optimistic and everything happens for a reason. It will get rented and my biz will do great and good times ahead. I see it happening and hope do to. Well have a great hump day. The last 3 days I have relaxed and enjoyed every moment. Last week went out every day with friends in town. Tonight going to a hump day happy hour with a girlfriend and tomorrow going out with my old roommate. We are going to catch up. Friday night I have a date and we are going to grab some sushi. Looking forward to seeing him and learning more. Saturday night I have a BJ Lap Bachelorette Party. Good times. Have a great day and talk to you soon. R

Working on an Exotic Online Magazine, Twittering and Business Coaching

2009-07-28T17:12:00.000-07:00

Today is July 28th. Where does time go? I can't believe it is almost August. So much is going on. I have a couple new things that I have been brainstorming and working on. I am really excited and looking forward to seeing it grow. I am working on an online ebyresa exotic magazine. This is where all the open minded people and businesses can go all over the world and find a biz or a person. The businesses that would want to be on this site would be classes, videos, blogs, forums, pics of vaginas, penises, different sex magaizines subscritions, books to read, articles, subscriptions,
people to advertise, testimonials, movies, sex school, dvd's
advertising porn ect. burlesque, pole dancing, sex phone operators, escort, massage, clothe stores, toy stores, pin up, tantrasex therapist, porn stars sex stories, hbo real sex, ect... cake and desert ideas. I will be writing an outline,goals and more of my ideas in the next week. I am so excited. I will be meeting my web guy in a couple weeks to start the site. If any one is interested or you know someone who would be please spread the word. YEA!!!. So What else. I am twittering now. FOLLOW Me at twitter.com/ebyresa I am following more twitters and now they are following me. More people know about ebyresa the more people who will spread the word. DVD's are selling. Check my site at ebyresa.com. You can see a promo and you can buy the DVD's on my site. $24.99 How to Lap Dance: $19.99 How to Striptease or Both $39.99 and FREE SHIPPPING.
Teaser Striptease Lap Dance Lessons Introductory Rate ONLY $10.00. First Time Clients. Great Deal. Most Women Sign up for the Striptease 101 3.5 Hour Workshop on 3 Different Days Sign up & The Teaser Class is FREE. It is $99.00 for the class 2 How to DVD's and a shirt.
I love marketing and business coaching. I am starting a $99.00 Biz Coach in August. It is ONLY $99.00 for an hour for first time clients. Passion To Success for Start Up Businesses, Long Term Business or Any one Who Has An Idea and Wants to Move forward & Start A Biz. I will show you FREE to Inexpensive Business Ideas, Thinking Outside the BOX Plus More. So exciting to get this start. If interested get in touch.
So much work what about going out. I have been wanting to start blogging about my dating life. I may do that next time. I meet some nice guys but not many men want to work at it. They want it easy. So I will start writing a blog on that SOON. Also I am still wanting to video blog my life and do a reality show.
Been going out a lot, partying, not much traveling. I am heading to LA to visit the family this weekend. Beginning of September going to Burning Man. It is a camping trip for almost a week in 115 degrees with sand storms. It will be an experience but I am really excited about it. I have a handful of friends going and I heard that it will open my eyes and mind to many new things. This is the only trip that I can do this year. I am needing it. Well please read on and send me emails or comments. Oh yes one more thing. I am on yelp. It is a review site. If you have taken a class or seen my DVD please write a review. Here is the link. Talk to you soon and thanks for reading my BLOG. http://www.yelp.com/biz/ebyresa-san-diego

WOW- It's been 2 months. Where does time go DVD's Are Selling YEAHHH

2009-06-11T13:51:00.000-07:00

It has been awhile since I wrote. Sorry. Been real busy. Finally my 2 How to Striptease & Lap DVD's are Done & Selling. They look awesome. If you are interested in buying a DVD please email me at ebyresa@gmail.com. The Lap DVD is $24.99 and the striptease DVD is $19.99. If you buy both it is $39.99. Tshirts are on Sale for $15.00 each. If you get all 3 - 2 dvds and a shirt $49.99. Finishing the DVD- now working on the DVD covers. WANT TO MAKE EXTRA MONEY$$$ You can make money by wearing my clothes or just passing out my cards. It is a referral program. If any one takes my class and mentions your name. You get $5.00 per person. If you need extra cash this is a fun way to meet people and get the word out. DVD's look great. I have 2- How to Striptease for Your Partner and How to Lap Dance For Your Partner. You will learn all the moves from the walk, hip rolls, floor routines, using the wall instead of the pole,strip tease ideas and many lap dance moves. You will LOVE it. Join my MEETUP at meetup.com/ebyresa to get all the updates on all my classes, events and promos. You don't want to miss it. I have been working on the biz and loving it. Weekly I have teaser striptease Lap Dance Lessons. I have so much fun meeting all different women and teaching the classes. Come and explore. I have some great workshops and events this month. This Sunday I am starting a monthly brunch. This one will be at 11:30am Sunday June 14th at Dish Universal Hillcrest. $1.00 Mimosas Woo Hoo. June 25th is the next Sexy Women and Wine Event at UnWine in Little Italy. June 27th Aqua Day Spa - get a massage or just enjoy a spa day with us. You will have a blast. I have weekly teaser workshops and next month I will have my next Striptease 101- 3.5 hour workshop $59.99. But a new special $99.99 3.5 hour workshop plus both DVD's and a shirt. SIGN UP NOW. Mid July 19th the next Blow Him Away Lap Dance.
I am already booking parties 3 months ahead so book NOW and one on one lessons and Gift Certificates are Selling- A great GIFT TO GIVE- Email me and I can send you a GC to give to a friend.
Social Life has been a lot of fun. I ended up not doing the scavenger hunt for my bday. We had a great day. Went to Aqua Day Spa and got a massage. Got a mani an pedi. That night went to Nobu at Hard Rock. Oh My God- So good. The food there is awesome. After that went dancing and partied at Fleetwood. I was supposed to go to New Orleans right after that. We ended up not going. Airplane delays and we decided not to go. Rebecca and I went to Pechanga Wine Country for the night. We had so much fun. Great dinner, great drinks,company and we had so much fun. Last weekend Rebecca and I went to Santa Barbara for the weekend. My friend Dave had a 60th birthday party. He rented a huge house and had his friends party and stay up there. We had a blast. I saw some old friends I haven't seen for awhile. Partied and enjoyed every moment. Saturday night there was a dance room with a pole. The other room was a dungeon room. We had different costume changes. I changed into 5 different lingerie and costumes. What a weekend. I am done partying for a moment. It took a couple days to get back on track. Now my goal is to work full fledge on my DVD Sales. I have many more ideas in the works.Please spread the word. This gets my biz going. Thanks for Reading and would love to hear from you.....

Spring Is Here Great Classes & DVD's Are DONE & ON SALE

2009-04-15T11:43:00.000-07:00

Hello
It has been awhile since I wrote. Sorry. Been real busy. Finishing the DVD- now working on the DVD covers. April my graphic designer is unbelievable. She is great. Love the logo she did. I have tshirts, tanks and gstrings for sale. Call me or email me at ebyresa@gmail.com to order. They are $17.99 and if you buy 2 $30.00. You can make money by wearing my clothes or just passing out my cards. It is a referral program. If any one takes my class and mentions your name. You get $5.00 per person. If you need extra cash this is a fun way to meet people and get the word out. DVD's look great. I have 2- How to Striptease for Your Partner and How to Lap Dance For Your Partner. They are each $19.99 and if you buy 2 they are $34.99. BUY THEM NOW. You will learn all the moves from the walk, hip rolls, floor routines, using the wall instead of the pole,strip tease ideas and many lap dance moves. You will LOVE it. Join my MEETUP at meetup.com/ebyresa to get all the updates on all my classes, events and promos. You don't want to miss it. I have been working on the biz and loving it. Weekly I have teaser striptease Lap Dance Lessons. I have so much fun meeting all different women and teaching the classes. Come and explore. I have my sexy women and wine event next Thursday at the IVY. There are many new women coming to this event. Looking forward to meeting them. I have the Blow Him Away Lap Dance Workshop April 26th. That is already booking up. It SELLS OUT Every Month. Save your Spot Now. Next month I am having the Striptease 101 again. This time 3 hours 3 different days. Yeah I am excited. If you are interested in one on one lessons, semi group or at home parties CALL ME. I am already booking parties 3 months ahead so book NOW. While I am not working I have been traveling a little. Last week went to LA for a couple days. I hung out with the family the whole time. It was nice seeing every one. I realize how much I love San Diego. The traffic gets worst and worst. URGH!!! A month ago went to Vegas with a few friends. Had a blast. One of the best Vegas trips. Stayed at the Wynn partied like rockstars that night at Tryst. The next day I felt like crap. That Sunday night Rebecca and I saw "O" at Bellagio. Loved every moment of it. Go see it if you can. I have been going out in SD a lot also. Trying new restaurants, dating here and there. No one special. Partying a little to much. This week taking it easy. I am staying home all week and cooking, watching TV, movies, relaxing and going to bed early. I am already filing better. This weekend I am going to try to take it easy. I have a friend coming in town so maybe dinner. The weekend after April 25th is My bday. I can't believe it. I have a busy week that week. April 23rd is the sexy women and wine. Saturday I am having a digital camera scavenger hunt birthday party. Can't wait. Sunday I have the BJ Lap Workshop and Tuesday the Laser Hair Removal Party. Than Wednesday I am going to New Orleans for a few days for Jazz Fest. I think that is why I am taking it easy this week. Email me if you have questions or just want to say hello. Talk to you soon. Resa

DVD'S ARE Done Clips and Shirts are Selling

2009-02-24T12:31:00.000-08:00

Today is February 24th 2009. I am at Influx coffee shop working on the biz. The last 4 weeks I have been going up to Sun City to finish the DVD. It looks great. They are 2 instructional DVD's One on how to striptease and the other How to Lap Dance. Both step by step, informative DVD's that will teach you how to do a sexy dance for your partner. They are both non nudity. Please email me at ebyresa@gmail.com to BUY YOUR DVD Now. My graphic designer is working on the DVD covers at this time. She has done amazing work on my logo and business cards. I can't wait to see her magic on the DVD covers and other marketing material. I am so happy I met her and I am happy I am working with her. She is great. I have been having some great workshops. Weekly I am teaching my teaser classes and in a couple weeks I am teaching my 3 hour striptease 101 workshop. Last week I had the 2nd sexy women and wine event at the Wine Cabana. Great group of girls. It was a lot of fun. Talked about relationships, fantasies, dating, men plus more. Drank some wine, ate some good food and enjoyed the company. Next month I am thinking of doing the sexy women and wine event at a new wine bar called Mosaic. Really hip cool new wine bar in North Park. I went there this last weekend and had a great time. My roommate Carly and I went there to share an appetizer and a bottle of wine. Good Times. Sunday day I went to an Oscar Party in my condo. They played some movie trivia games, drank some mimosas and met some great neighbors. That night relaxed at home and watched the Oscars. Yesterday I worked and finally a great busy day. I haven't had a busy day like that in months. I hope every day is like that. Last night met a guy for some drinks and appetizers. It was a nice night. This morning I got up early and my new thing is to take a long walk in my neighborhood. My dog gets tired but it is good for both of us. I feel awake and a live doing it. Today working on the biz and working at the club the rest of the week. I was planning on going up to Sun City one more time to clean up and finish the promo trailer for the how to dvd's. I still need to do that in the next week. I also need a couple lap dancing pictures for the DVD cover. Lots of work but I am enjoying every minute of it. Please check my site at ebyresa.com join my meetup at meetup.com/ebyresa Buy a DVD, DVD Clip and Shirt. Please email me if you have any questions. Looking forward to hearing from you and meeting you soon. Resa

Happy Valentine Specials , DVD Clips and Tshirts

2009-02-12T14:54:00.000-08:00

Hello,
Today is February 12th. 2 days before Valentines. Happy Valentines. If you are stuck on a gift idea, I have the greatest last minute idea. Gift Certificates 1/2 OFF for your sweet heart. The Gift Certificate goes towards classes, workshops, DVD's, Tshirts, one on one private lessons or at home parties. I also teach couple connection workshops and couple dinner parties. I have clips from my DVD on ebyresa.com NOW. Go on to my site and download now for a small price clips on learning a sexy striptease and lap dance. Enjoy and have fun. I am in Sun City right now finishing up the DVD. It is looking great. So informative and helpful. I can't wait for the world to see it and buy it. I will be having promo DVD release parties in the next couple months. I hope you can make it. Last week we had the first erotic networking event of the year. Thanks for coming. Looking for more upcoming events this year. Last Sunday Sayaka and I had the first Blow Him Away Lap Dance Workshop. It has been a year since we taught together. She traveled the states and now she is back. We had a great group of women. We had a blast and the next workshop together is March 15th at 5pm. Sign up now. I am also teaching teaser workshops weekly. It is only $15.00 and bring a friend for FREE. A week from today Feb 19th I am having the next sexy women and wine event at the Wine Cabana. Last month was a great success. Hope to see many more faces and the same from last month. I have t shirts for sale. Email me if you would like one. I have tshirts, tanks and undies. I have a advertising promotion going on. If you wear my shirt and some one wants to know more about it. You give them the information. If they sign up for my class you get $5.00 per person each referral you send to me. Yes $5.00. Word of Mouth grows my business. Sign up for my meetup.com/ebyresa to get more updates on my classes and workshops. Go to ebyresa.com to check my site,logo and buy some dvd clips. So that is my life in the working world. My personal life hmm. I have been staying in a lot, working out doing yoga, reading, and eating in more often. I am enjoying it and cooking more. Last weekend I went to LA for one night to visit the family. That was nice. This weekend I don't have many plans. I may just work on the biz. No Valentine for me except at this time my dog Bailey. That is fine with me. I have my passion on ebyresa right now and getting this DVD done. Enjoy your day and Valentine Weekend. Would love to hear from you. Testimonial, Advice, Class Ideas. Ect. Talk to you soon. Resa

DVD Clips and Tshirts EbyResa.com

2009-02-02T12:11:00.000-08:00

Hello
Today is Monday February 2nd. Wow I can't believe it is already February. Where does time go.... January was a great month. I had some great workshops, sexy women and wine and got a lot done with the DVD process, website and tshirts. Check my site at ebyresa.com buy clips and tshirts. I would also love feedback. I am doing an tshirt advertisement. If you buy my shirt and people ask you about it and they take my class you get $5.00 each person. Every day I realize how much I love my business. I taught some great classes and parties this last month. Every one had so much fun and made me laugh. When I am teaching and I know the girls are learning new moves and opening there mind to date night and spicing up their relationshop. It feels really good. When ever you have a testimonial I would love for you to email me it. Also word of mouth brings my business up. Please write a review on yelp,yahoo events and others. That would be great. I have been working on my music for the DVD. I picked some sexy sultry music. I am meeting my video guy Thursday. I am hoping we will get it all done. I would love to have the final dvds done and ready to sell by the end of February. I already have clips of the DVD to buy on ebyresa.com. Check it out. You can buy it and practice over and over again on your computer. Check my blog weekly. I have been pretty good and writing and updating you my life of an exotic dance instructor. My plan is to start doing web blogs of my life. This is away for people to see what I am doing and to grow my biz. Coming soon. I have some great workshops this month. I have some teaser classes, Sunday I have the Blow Him Away Lap Dance Workshop with Sayaka. This Thursday the first Free Erotic Networking Group at 57 Wine Bar and in a few weeks at Wine Cabana the Sexy Women and Wine Event. Remember I also teach at home parties great for bachelorette, bridal, girls night or married and bored parties. I teach one on one, semi group. I also will be teaching online soon. Check it all out and looking forward to hearing and seeing you soon. Resa

Yeah It's Friday and I am getting a lot done

2009-01-16T16:19:00.000-08:00

Today is Friday January 16th. I am at the coffee house right now putting the software into my new computer. I am going to get this music project done this week and get this DVD done. I feel very productive this year. It is going to be a great year for EbyResa. I would love my classes to fill up and they are starting to this month but I understand that people are saving there money during the recession. My classes are a lot of fun and very sexy and helpful. My prices are very reasonable and I have a lot of 2 for 1, bring a friend for FREE Specials. This year I already put my logo on shirts and other merchandise on cafepress.com/ebyresa. I have many teaser, striptease 101 and classes this month and next. I had my first sexy women and wine of the year last night at the Wine Cabana. There were 15 sexy fun girls. It was a great turn out and Wine Cabana has such a comfortable atmosphere. I recommend it. I am looking forward to maybe teaching workshops there and holding the sexy women and wine event there again. Next month I booked the first Exotic Networking event of the Year. It is going to be February 5th. Mark your calenders. It has been about 6 months since the last one. I wanted to start the new year off right. I miss seeing everyone. I also want to welcome back Sayaka and Nick. I am so happy you guys are back in town. Sayaka and I are going to have the Blow Him Away and Unbelievable Lap Dance Workshop next month. Right before Valentines Day February 8th. RSVP Now and save the date. It's been a year since we taught together. Yeah! What else is new. Hmm Last weekend was a crazy party weekend. I went out every night last week. It burnt me out. Friday night went out to dinner and drinks. Went to a new restaurant called Tabule. Delicious. Saturday night went out with my roomie and my old roommate Jeff. We went to Stingaree. I haven't been there for over a year. We had a great time. I wanted to relax Sunday but Charger Game. We went to East Village Tavern to watch the game. It was pretty disappointing that they lost. No one talked about it this week. Pretty bummed. It won't be the same this weekend. This week I took it easy most nights. I had a teaser striptease lap dance lesson on Tuesday the 13th. There were 3 girls and it was so much fun. The girls were a blast. Wednesday night I met with my web guy. He is working on putting the logo on my site and clips of dvd to sell. He is also putting pics of the tshirt with the logo on my site. I can't wait till it is done. Keep checking my site at ebyresa.com and tell me what you think. Also check the calender for upcoming classes. Join my meetup.com/ebyresa to join and learn more about my workshops. See you in 2009. R

Happy New Year 2009 and Ideas for this Month

2009-01-08T14:56:00.000-08:00

Hello. Today is Thursday January 8th. Its been almost a month since I wrote. It was a good month. I had a nice time in December and the holidays. Business was slow. I am still in the process of finishing the music for the dvd. I have to finish it in the next 2 weeks. I will be meeting with my web guy than. I want to go there put the music in the clips, do the chapters and get it finished. It is already taking to long. Finally picking that music guy Clive and than he turned into an unprofessional it is taking a little bit longer. The clips to buy are almost on my website. I am waiting for my web guy to finish that. You can go to mindbites.com and search striptease for clips now and also on payloadz.com. Shirts and some other merchandise are selling now on cafepress.com/ebyresa. I will also have shirts to sell in the next month. Email me to order. Lets chat about what I did the end of the month. I went to LA for a couple days for Christmas. That was really nice. I enjoyed seeing the family. My rental had some plumbing and fence issues. That was stressful. It was hard because I needed to get in touch with my neighbors to share 1/2 of the total for the neighborly fence. Robin helped out but I am still waiting to do the other fence. Hopefully in the next month. I want to start doing some work at my condo. I want to paint my walls. That is it. I need to get that done. I am happy that I got one fence done and fixed the plumbing. New Years came along fast. I did not have any big plans. I went to my girlfriend Karens house. We made some appetizers, drank wine. About 12 people showed up. We played bowling wii, and rock band. We were there at midnight. It was casual but a lot of fun. We ended up going to a couple bars and had some drinks after midnight. The next morning we got up early and partied all day in Pacific Beach. We had a lot of fun. I was in bed sleeping by 8ish New Years Day. That weekend I relaxed and watched the Chargers WIN Yeah right on my couch. This week I am started the week off right. I have been working a lot. Tuesday I worked on the biz all day. I planned all my classes and events this month. I sent out a newsletter and advertised it all over. I have some great workshops. I have teaser striptease lessons, the sexy women and wine event. This month it is at the wine cabana in old town. I am dong the BJ Hand Job workshop and the striptease 101. I have a couple parties booked this month. Yeah! Starting off right. Please spread the word about my classes and events. Looking forward to meeting you this year. Resa

Almost the End of The Year and Working on my DVD's

2008-12-04T13:03:00.000-08:00

Hello Today is Thursday December 4th. It's been about 3 weeks since I sat down all day and wrote in my blog and worked on the dvd. I work on it everyday but not in full focus. The last month I have been working a lot. My classes and parties are slow but that is usual during the holidays. So the music guy Clive Wright from http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.channel&ChannelID=56629969. NEVER EVER USE HIM OR REFER HIM. He took my money and decided not to let me listen to a music clip and move forward. Also he worked on some clips and decided if he works on any more clips I need to send him more money. The clips he already worked on I wasn't able to use unless I send him another $150.00 to get the copyright from him. I got screwed. He was so hard to work with also. Told me I was unprofessional. Wait I paid him for a service and he was so difficult. I just decided to let him keep my money and move forward. Now I am going to be the composer for my dvd's There is sonic fire royalty free music that I can put into my dvd. I am working on that now. So I am seeing the dvd's done in the next month. I hope. I am looking forward to it. I also met with my web guy and he is putting the clips of the dvd on to my site. You can also check my logo out. I am selling shirts and stuff on cafepress.com/ebyresa. Pass the word on and please buy a shirt. I will also have some to sell at my parties and classes soon. So excited. i love the logo. So I have so many ideas and want to do it all. I am slowing down and working on one project at a time. Finishing the DVD. That is the first project. So my personal life. I have been relaxing a lot and going out some times. I started salsa dancing and loving it. I am working out at the gym downstairs at my condo. I am more doing it for a lifestyle change and not working out to hard. I do about 30-40 minutes of cardio. I also enjoy reading my books when I am working out. It gets me to feel good and also read. The book club is going great. The last book we read was Twilight. So many people are reading it and talking about it. I am seeing the movie tonight. After I read Twilight I read the Secret Lives of Bees. Enjoyed that now I am reading the 2nd book of Twilight, New Moon. The next book in the book club is Life Of Pi. I am happy that I am reading so much this year. Really enjoying it. I have been dating a little bit. Not in the mood lately. Just working on me and the biz. If it happens great. The guys lately I meet are not ambitious or just lazy. They want me to go to them. They don't want to think of a date and it sounds like they just want sex. Be creative guys. I get bored easily and if the first date doesn't spark me there wont be a second. So one more month and it will be 2009. Where did this year go. I can't believe it. I don't have many plans this month. Just working a lot, maybe going to some parties-nothing planned yet. New Years no plans. I would love to go to a nice dinner with good friends. Drink wine and enjoy the night. We will see. I am going to work on the dvd and get some stuff done. Check my site at ebyresa.com and the blog. Talk to you soon. Resa

Step By Step Finishing My DVD

2008-10-29T14:25:00.000-07:00

Hello So I am writing weekly. Can you believe it. Today is Wednesday October 29th. I am at Influx Coffee house working on clips and sending it to Clive the music guy. He is putting the music together for my 2 How to DVD's. It is a little more complicated than I imagined. It is also pricier than I was expecting. We will see what happens. I maybe will only have music where there are No Voiceovers and instructions on how to d the moves. I believe it will still look great. Step By Step and I will have the final product. At this time I am 99% sure the clips for both dvds are done. Now we need to organize each one with music. Than we need to make a summary and finish each dvd. I am working now on the 2 dvd covers with my graphic designer. The logo is done but now I need to send her pics and a summary for the back sides of both dvds. I also want each clip from both dvds to be sold on my site and other websites that sell clips, including mindbites, ebay, itunes ect. So much to do. When I have the final product in hand I will be selling them on my site and other fitness and sexy video sites. I want to get my products in many stores around the united states. If anyone knows of any places online or stores please email me or update me. The DVD process is a ton of work but I also am working on the how to striptease cards. I need to finish the summaries. I have a friend editing them now. I also need to finish picking pictures and getting a design box and making the cards look great. On top of that I want to get tshirts made with my logo on them and other products to sell. I am probably going to sell on cafepress.com my website and at my classes. On top of that I want to finish my business plan. So that is what I am doing in my working world. Last weekend I was planning on working and relaxing more but it was a party weekend. Friday night I picked up Newman the cutest English Bulldog. I dog sat him till today. That night my roommate and her friend was getting ready to go out. We went to Bareback and the Ivy. It was a good time. Drank a little to much, went to bed late and the next day I was beat. I sat on my couch all day like a zombie. Saturday night I had a date. Well if you call it a date, we went out to a club. Wasn't planning on going to a club 2 days in a row. We went to Belo. It was fun. I had a good time on the date but I would like to go out just with him next time. Sunday my roommate and some of her friends went on a yacht party. I had a really good time. It was just tough partying 3 days in a row. By 7 I sobered up and was beat. The boat was staying out much later so I decided to take a water taxi to coronado and take a cab back home. I need to walk the dogs and sleep. I needed it. I am still recovering from sleep. This week just working, relaxing watching movies. Last night went to happy hour with a friend, tonight going on a date. I am going to get some work done. Please email me with any ideas or just to say hello. Resa

Recording Taking Off Clothes For My How To DVD's

2008-10-23T12:33:00.000-07:00

Hello Today is October 23rd. I am up in Sun City pass Temecula finishing up my DVD. The plan is to have it done by the end of November. Selling the hard copy DVD's by December or the beginning of the year. The clips of the DVD are already being sold individually on mindbites.com and search striptease. Check my site at ebyresa.com and there will be clips of the DVDs to purchase in the next week. Lets see what else. My logo is done. It looks so great. I love it. Check my site soon and you can see it. I will be putting them on tshirts and other products real soon. I am also working on my how to marketing cards. Right now I am going to sell 52 ways to striptease. I am going to finish the summaries and pics and produce those. I am looking forward to having that done by the end of the year. I have been back from Aruba for 2 weeks now. Since I have been back I have been working a lot. During the week I work on the biz, work out in the morning, eating at home more and not drinking that much. Feeling good and refreshed. Last weekend I took it easy. I watched movies, went to a potluck and went on a date. We watched the charger game and enjoyed a nice Sunday. This weekend I am going to work, go out on another date Saturday night. Sunday catch up and watch the Chargers. Halloween is up in the air. During the day I will be working. That night from 7-9 I have a striptease party to teach. After that I am planning on going out with some friends. Dressing up is up in the air. I maybe a school girl. Easy outfit I already have. My goals for the end of the year. Finish both DVD's. finish one set of marketing cards, finish some shirts with the logo on it. Start planning and marketing the sexy girls fitness club for next year. Get some affiliate clothes and toy sites to sell on my site, Sell clips of my dvd all over the states. Spread the word and get many different people to know where they can buy the clips. Another idea is having contributors send in different videos and pictures of there striptease teasing moves. They can win prizes and classes. What do you think of that? Monthly I am still doing sexy women and wine events. I am in the process of starting the exotic networking event again. I miss seeing all my erotic friends. Interested in being at the event or any ideas email me. Well I am going to finish up with some stuff. Check in for more updates and soon video blogs again. See you soon. Resa

Where does Time Go

2008-10-13T15:34:00.000-07:00

Hello,
So it's been a while since I wrote. I have had emails and requests to keep writing. I always want to but I get busy and it is another day. I really want to do a daily blog and a video blog about the life of me. I just got back from Aruba a couple days ago. I worked a little bit when I was over there. I decided no more procrastinating. I am working my butt off. The plan- well I started my business plan. That is a long process. I have a lady working on my logo and soon the DVD cover. The logos are looking great. I will be choosing one soon. I am pretty much done with the dvd. I just need to work with the music guy and get the music on the dvd. I also am working on the 52 ways to strip and lap dance how to cards. I am looking at the end of the year one set of cards and the dvds complete. I also need to learn how to use the webcam. I have been getting emails on teaching lessons online. I want to start doing that real soon. I really don't know where time has gone. I feel like I am busy and getting things done, but there is still so much to do. Small Steps. I am also working on opening a sexy flirty fitness studio for women in the next couple months. At this studio I will be teaching classes and workshops on cardio striptease, lap dance, pole, strip pilates, strip yoga, burlesque plus more. Hmm What else.... My social life. So I ended up going to Aruba last week. I went 3 months ago with my gf Rebecca. We had the best time. We ate, drank, snorkeled, got massages, met local guys. One of the guys I met Carsten I went back and visited him last week. I loved Aruba so much I probably had high expectations this time. I just wanted to enjoy Aruba, Carsten and have a good time. I had an okay time. The weather most of the week was heavy rain and thunderstorms. Most of the days I was inside the hotel room. At least at night we went and ate. The food there is really good. I ate a couple places that wasn't that good. The food I had that was great was a fish restaurant and an argentina steak house um yum. The last 2 days the weather was nice and I got a little tan. Yeah. The trip ended on a good note. I still don't see me rushing back there any time soon. No more trips planned here. I have some ideas but right now I want to focus on SD and my biz. Lately I have been waking up at 8ish. I really want to wake up at 7ish and work out start my day and get more stuff done. So my plan is to write at least once a week, video a blog once a week, work on my business plan and finish all my dvds and cards. If you have any ideas or just want to email me email me at ebyresa@gmail.com and check my site at ebyresa.com

Finishing up the Voice Overs for my DVD

2008-06-05T14:06:00.000-07:00

Hello,
I can't I wrote 3 weeks ago. Where does the time go. So much is happening. I have been prety busy but in a great way. Today I am in Sun City working and finishing up the editing and voice overs for the 2 DVD's. It is looking good. I have some of the clips on mindbites but soon they will be on my website ebyresa.com. The workshops in May were a lot of fun. The tantra lap dance workshop with Steven Jay had great energy and was fun to teach. I had the Fellatio Hand Job Workshop at the Rubber Rose. There were 22 women. A great success. I have had girls drive hours to my workshop. A couple that night did. I was thinking about how many girls are interested in my classes but don't leave close enough. So the next day I bought a webcam. I am looking into and researching how I can teach classes online. Any one and anywhere can take my lessons. I am going to do BJ and Hand Job Workshops and Striptease and Lap Dance Moves. I am planning on doing live classes and recorded. Email me if interested. Let's see what else my graphic designer is working on my logo and my 2 dvd covers. I also am working on the marketing cards. I have many great, exciting new workshops in June. I am doing the FREE teaser classes on Tuesdays. This Tuesday at 7pm I am starting my Striptease 101 Set of 3. It has been about 7 months since I did this workshop. I am excited to start it again. June 14th I have the BJ Lap Dance Workshop, The 3 hour workshop on June 22nd Exotic Dance Experience- strip, lap, chair and pole. Fellatio Hand Job Workshop and a Free Women and Wine Event. In July I am working with a sushi chef and we are doing an exotic sushi stripease lesson open house night. Exciting. The end of the month I am taking a relaxing vacation with Brian to Aruba. Please tell all your friends about my blog, workshops, DVD's plus more. See you soon. Resa

Editing and Voice Over On Lap Dance DVD's

2008-05-15T15:39:00.000-07:00

Yeah We are finally working on lap dancing voice overs. It is looking good. I am so excited. We have already worked on 3 clips. I have been pretty busy since the last time I wrote. Let's see. I had a great birthday. The weekend of my bday Brian made me dinner. Saturday my parents came down and my friend Becky came down from LA. I had a birthday party at Enoteca Style Wine Bar. It was a great turn out. The weekend after Brian surprised me and we went to La Quinta for the weekend. It was so nice. The weather was perfect. We tanned, read, cooked and relaxed. We both needed it. It was a great surprise.
I started a book club with my girlfriends. The first book was Eat Pray Love. There were about 5 of us. We drank, ate, talked about the book and had a very enjoyable evening. The next book we are reading is Three Cups of Tea. I am enjoying that book. I also started to read and learn about being more environmental friendly. I saw on Oprah a show on being green and to read this book Gorgeously Green. I am enjoying that book. I also want to start a Green Club. I don't know if I could get many friends interested in that. I will try,
Lets talk about my classes and work. In general everything is slowing down in the world. I am still getting interest in my classes. Please email me or call me if you are interested. We have some great workshops. Right now Rebecca and I are doing the 4 week exotic dance experience. We have one more class left in the series the Pole. That is next Wednesday in Ocean Beach. This Saturday I am teaming up with Steven who does tantra. We are doing a lap dancing tantra class for couples. Next week I have a BJ Hand Job Workshop at the Rubber Rose. That class is always my most popular. In a couple weeks I am teaming up with the tantra cafe and another adult entertainment networking group. We are having the next FREE exotic networking group. This is a great way to meet open minded businesses and people. Come join us. I am also working on doing a exotic pilates class. I am looking for a wonderful open minded teacher to work with. I believe this class will be FULL every week. Any one interested? I also want to donate a monthly percentage to a new charity. Every class or party I teach I donate to that charity of the month. If you are a charity and interested email me. I have a lot on my plate and I have been working at the club a couple extra days a week. I haven't been focusing on my ideas as much as I would like to. Work at the club has been really slow so I have been working extra to help me out. It is helping me out to get the DVD's out, the 52 ways Cards and t-shirts. You will see this on my website at ebyresa.com real soon. Email me with ideas or comments. Resa

Working on The Striptease DVD

2008-04-23T14:10:00.000-07:00

Hi Today is April 23rd. I am in Sun City today working on my striptease DVD. We are doing voiceovers on the walk and the crawl. I hope we get most of the striptease routines done. When I work on the dvd I get a lot done. I finally get a chance to write in the blog. I still need to do video clips of my life and put it on you tube and other video sites. So much is in the works. I have been working at the club a couple extra days a week. Those days I am not on the computer as much getting my name out. Please spread the word about my business. That would be great. What else is happening. A couple weeks ago I had a FREE Erotic Networking group. We teamed up with the Rubber Rose and this other adult entertainment networking group. There was about 30 or more people. It was a great crowd. I met a photographer Gary Wise. He is downtown and I have heard his name before. We talked and brainstormed about some ideas. After the meeting I met with him and discussed some photo class ideas. We also are going to do a cocktail event to introduce our services. We made an appointment next week to take pictures for the cover of my dvd, website and the deck of card idea. I also met with graphic designer. He is going to make my logo, business cards, shirts, dvd covers and another marketing product for people to learn the striptease and lap dance. After I finish these products I am going to start working on the Blow Job and Hand Job DVD and cards. I can't wait to start spreading the word to talk shows, magazines, new stations, news papers, and stores all around. I love teaching it and I can't wait for others to experience. My social life is doing good. This Friday is my birthday. Brian and I will have dinner on Friday and Saturday I am having a bday party. Next week he is taking me out of town. It is a surprise. I am looking forward to it. Yeah. Well I have a lot on my plate and I am looking forward to the dvd and cards to be done and you can check it out. Oh before the final product I am selling clips of each striptease move on a website called mindbites and they will also be on my site soon. Ebyresa.com Email me if you have any comments or questions. Resa

Working on the Editing on the Lap Dance DVD

2008-04-09T12:33:00.000-07:00

Today is Wednesday April 9th. Wes the video guy I am working with is over and we are going through the lap dance clips. This is the first time I saw the clips. It is looking good. We haven't met up and worked on the dvd for a couple weeks. Now that we are working on it I notice we still have a lot to do. I am really excited but it takes longer than I thought. I am not in to much of a rush but I have some great ideas in store. I want to have a dvd release party. I also will be selling clips of the walk, hip rolls, crawl ect. to practice on on your computer or ipod. I will also be making a card set on striptease lap dance lessons. When the final products are done I will be looking into talk shows, news shows, magazines and more media. If anyone has any ideas I would love to hear about it. Other things I have been doing is last week I had the exotic networking group at the rubber rose. We teamed up with another networking group, and a sex positive meet up group and the rubber rose. There was about 30 people at the event. It was great. I made some connections. One photographer that I spoke to had some great ideas. We are going to meet next week and brainstorm and think of some great parties and workshops that we can work on. Lets see I have been working a couple extra days a week at the club. The last couple weeks the club is getting busier and people are wanting dances. That is a good thing.
Brian and I have been doing the date idea weekends. A couple weeks ago we went up to Los Angeles for the dodger red sox game at the coliseum. It was a different experience. That weekend was a fun weekend all together. He played golf with my dad. I hung out with my mom and Grandma Dorothy. I also got to see Grandma Tessie. We went out to breakfast with a couple girlfriends and I ran into a friend from highschool. I haven't seen her in years. It was nice to catch up. Sunday we drove back to SD. We went to Karen and Kholas for a street faire. We partied, ate sushi, and karaoked. That was a long crazy weekend. Last week I worked a lot and the weekend I had 2 at home parties. Sunday went to the padre game and a bbq. I have a couple workshops coming up. I have teaser classes, the 4 week exotic dance experience and a Fellatio Hand Job Workshop. Keep in touch and I will also be writing the life of an exotic dance instructor. R

Reshooting the Intro and About me for the DVD

2008-03-13T15:09:00.000-07:00

Hi It is Thursday March 13th. I am back in Sun City near Temecula working on my 2 how to DVD's. I got here around 10am. We decided to reshoot the introduction and about me section for the DVD's. I liked how I looked and presented myself during the first try but my eyes were not looking into the camera. I want my audience to feel that I am talking to them and I have confidence through my eyes. We taped it again with a different back drop. It is looking good. I can't wait to start doing voice overs and seeing the final product. Since the last time I wrote, Friday day I worked at the club. It was a great day. Lately business has been slow but Friday was a busy day. I worked till 9pm. After work I went to Pacific Beach for a drink. Saturday was date day with Brian. We had breakfast and played golf. The last time I played golf was about 3 years ago. I had a great day and I had pretty good control with the ball. That night we went to dinner at Wet Stone. We were planning on listening to music at house of blues but we ended up watching a movie back at his house. It was a great day. Sunday I relaxed and went to dog park with my roommate. We had some gelato and that night went to Modus for dinner. Monday I worked at the club. Another decent day. That night I met up with Brian and his friends for dinner and drinks. Tuesday I worked on my business, did some errands and met up with Karen. We went bowling, and to some bars Downtown. Yesterday I worked on some email marketing. I met up with Kypris a tantra teacher. We planned a class next month. It is a tantra lap dance class for couples. Looking forward to that. Last night I met with my cousin and his work partner for dinner. Already a busy day. I will be leaving Sun City around 6pm tonight. Tomorrow I am working at the club. This weekend is my date day. I will keep you updated on my life and my workshops. R

Working on My Business

2008-03-06T12:19:00.000-08:00

Today is Thursday and the week is going great. I was supposed to work on my dvd today but we postponed it till next week. Instead I am organizing my email list through constant contact. This is a site that does email marketing with different templates. It also shows me who opened the email,read, throwed it awayed ect. I believe this site will help me organize and grow my business. Since the last time I wrote I worked at the club on Friday and that night relaxed with Brian. Saturday I was surprising Brian with a date day and night. Every other week we plan a day or night to go on a date. It is just a way to hang out with your partner and it can be a surprise, a weekend trip, a hike what ever you plan. I surprised Brian and we took a drive on the coast. We stopped for lunch in Encinitas, went to Carlsbad to a winery, ended up back in Encinitas for drinks and dinner. Than we saw a play in Solana Beach. It was a fun Saturday together. Sunday we hung out and did errands and had dinner with friends. Monday I worked at the club. Tuesday I had a busy day. I met up with Rebecca and we planned out the next Exotic Dance Experience. The next 4 week series will start Sunday March 23rd. After that I met up with Carly from the Rubber Rose. We discussed and planned the next Fellatio Hand Job Workshop. I am going to start teaching there hopefully monthly. Rubber Rose is in North Park. It is a sex boutique shop. We also booked the next FREE erotic networking event. It will be April 3rd. We may combine this event with the adult entertainment networking group. The rest of the day I did some errands and Tuesday night I taught the Fellatio Hand Job Class at Suki Day Spa. There were 8 girls and it was a fun time. Yesterday I met with my tax lady and I had a interview with an online publication called the Naughty American. The article will bee about my class on Blow Jobs and Hand Jobs. He will also talk about other classes that I teach. Last night I had the lap dancing workshop at my place. I love teaching the class and really focusing on the connection that it holds. After the class I went to Brians and they were having a birthday dinner for his friend Chris. Good food, wine and company. I am looking forward to another prosperous week and hope to get going on this DVD. I will keep you updated. Later

Editing and Voiceovers

2008-02-28T13:48:00.000-08:00

Today I am near Temecula with the video guy Wes working on my 2 how to DVD's on Striptease and Lap Dance. I am so excited that I am finally in the stages of videoing, editing and having a finished product. What I have seen so far looks awesome. About a month ago we started taping the striptease section at my girlfriends Karen's house. I did the introduction, each step in 2 outfits on the walk, hip rolls, squat, crawl, floor routines and using the wall instead of the pole. A couple weeks ago we videoed the lap dancing part at my friend Stephens house. He is the guy who is the DVD and getting lap dances. He enjoyed that. It was fun to see this process move forward. Right now we are going through the tape and editing it and doing voice overs. After this process I will be taking different clips of each move and selling the clips on my website, through different websites and hopefully itunes. Than we will video some classes of mine and edit it into the DVD's. I believe the final product will take place the beginning of April. Finally!!!! When I am done with this video I will get in touch with advertising it on TV, magazines, online plus more. I have many ideas for the DVD. After this is done I am planning on making a book and cards with pictures on them and the other side has the description from that move.
Lets see what else, I was teaching a Blow Job Lap Dance Workshop with my sexologist friend Sayaka. She moved and is traveling to nudist resorts this year. I started teaching both classes. I am having so much fun teaching that class. I teach and show pics on circumcise and uncircumcise, flacid and hard penises, swallow or not to swallow and we do hands on blow job and hand job techniques using dildos, cucumbers or bananas. If this class takes off like my exotic dance lessons I will be planning on videoing a BJ Hand Job DVD. So much is happening. I also want to do a reality series on my life. It is a little harder than I thought. I may need an agent, an attorney ect. If I don't get on TV I may do a online reality series. Any ideas. If you are interested in any classes, workshops, FREE events please email me at ebyresa@gmail.com and check my site at ebyresa.com

Happy New Year

2008-01-08T12:24:00.000-08:00

Wow! Where does time go. Happy New Year. I went to Boston Cape Cod and New York to bring in the new year. It was pretty chilly but a lot of fun. I got back last Friday night relaxed this weekend and yesterday staring my week off right. I have some great workshops starting next week. Sunday Sayaka and I are having 2 BJ and Lap Dance Workshops. One filled up fast so we opened another one. This will be the last time we will be teaching this class. She is moving out of SD for over a year. I will miss her. I will be starting to teach the BJ Lap Class starting next month. Next Tuesday Rebecca another exotic dance teacher are teaming up and staring a 4 week 6 hour series on the exotic dance experience. In this workshop women will learn the striptease moves, chair dance routines, lap dance routines and the basics of the pole. I am really excited about this workshop. I am also still in the works of finding the right person to help me with my how to dvds on striptease and lap dancing. I am going to start doing video casting on my life of an exotic dance teacher for you all to watch. It would be great to hear feedback and any ideas you have. Looking forward to a great 2008. See you all soon. Resa

Meeting A Video Guy for my 2 How To DVD's

2007-09-10T15:58:00.000-07:00

I can't believe it has been 2 weeks since I wrote. I don't know where the time went. Let's see what have I been up to. In the last couple weeks I have been finishing up my outline script for my 2 how to DVD's on striptease lessons and lap dance lessons. I have been in the works on these DVD's for a while. I want these dvds to be very informative and when women watch these DVD's they will know how to do a wonderful striptease and an unbelievable lap dance. These DVD's will teach people how to spice up there romance, life, build confidence through excercise and ideas. They will learn many moves and transitions to learn a striptease though the walk, hip rolls, floor routines- the crawl, splits; using the wall instead of a pole and many moves to give a lap couch dance. In this process I am planning on having a ebook, hard book and pamphlets to help you learn all these moves. I have met a couple people to help me with this process and I am really excited to meet a video guy this Wednesday. I had the erotic networking group last week. It went very well. It was at Kamala Devis Emerald Temple in Pacific Beach. She is a tantric teacher and a bliss coach. We had many people at this event and Kamala had a presentation on self promotion. Wow she is great and has so many wonderful ideas. She helped me and everyone at the event with great marketing ideas for our business. The next erotic networking marketing group will be the end of October. I will update you when the date is set. At the last networking group I met Wes the video guy. He has done many tantra and yoga how to dvds. He has been doing these videos for a while and seems very passionate about his work. So that is who I am meeting this Wednesday in LA. I will update you this week how it went. So what else have I been doing. During the day I am usually at a coffee house working on my dvd outline, advertising for my group classes and learning about podcasting, lifecasting. I used my digital camera to video myself and do a video blog. It was fun to do. I will be posting that up hopefully on here, myspace, youtube and other video websites. I will be getting a webcam this week and will be doing video blogs more often, so look out for that. I have been working at the club for 4-5 days a week. I am getting used to staying up late and sleeping in a little later. I used to go to bed around 11pm and wake up around 7am. I have been going to bed at 2:30-3am and waking up around 9ish. Since I starting dancing again, it has helped me pay my bills easier, learn more moves for my classes and DVD's and help me plan a trip to Europe. I am leaving the end of September for 3 weeks. I am so looking forward to it. I have been busy working but whenever I have a day off I go out with friends to dinner, movies, bars ect. I always need to relax and have a nice glass of wine. I am going to get ready for work tonight. Look out for my blogs and video blogs. Remember check my site at ebyresa.com and I will see you soon at a class or networking group.

Starting my Monday in the right direction

2007-08-27T15:50:00.000-07:00

Hello It is Monday and I am starting my week off right. This morning I got up around 9am. I jogged around Downtown, went to the tanning salon, did some errands and now I am at the coffee house brainstorming ideas for a reality show/ internet buzz about my life as an exotic dance instructor. I am in the works of starting to video my life and put it on this blog, myspace, you tube, a website, metacafe and other forms of the internet. This is a place where you get to see what I do in my daily life. It looks like I have a normal day to day life but most people would not say it is not that normal. This weekend was pretty normal. Friday night I went to dinner with my roommate and his family. Saturday I went to Orange County to a wedding and headed to the new bistro brewery Stone in Escondido. You got to check this place out. It has a great zen garden, restaurant, outside bar and more. Good food, great beer and wine. Yesterday I did a double at the club. I started dancing again a couple months ago. I took 3 years off and now I am back. It felt like I never left. Thinking about going back was hard but I am happy I did. Financially it is helping me out when months are slow with my business but also I am learning new moves and ideas for my classes. This will help me bring more moves to the how to dvds on stripteasing and lap dancing.
My plans for the week will be working at the club 3 or 4 nights. During the day writing my business plan, outlining my how to dvds, starting to video some clips for the internet on my life, booking my teaser, stiptease 101 and blow him away "BJ" and Lpa Dance Workshops. This Thursday I have my free erotic networking group for open minded businesses and people. I started this networking group about 9 months ago. I have met so many amazing people in this group who I network with and also became good friends with. Please come and join this group to meet many people who will open your mind and explore your wild side. This Thursday will be at the Emerald Temple in Pacific Beach. Kamala will be offering a presentation on marketing and self promotion at her temple. She teaches tantra yoga and bliss coaching. There will also be sexologist, a nude butler, sex toys reps, photographers, a dominatrix, a swing club owner plus more.
Thanks for reading and I will be posting more this week and updating you about the video blogs you can watch on my life as an exotic dance instructor. Resa with Ebyresa Check my site at ebyresa.com

First Day of Blogging

2007-08-22T16:12:00.000-07:00

Hello So I finally got this blog thing going. Today is my first day blogging. My name is Resa with EbyResa. I teach exotic striptease lap dance lessons. Here I am going to talk about my daily routines on what I do to grow my business, what I teach in my classes and my fun adventures to keep me young and feeling sexy. Today I am at a coffee house near my home with my friend Lara working away. I am updating my website ebyresa.com, sending new workshops to my database, planning a business plan and outlining and scripting information for my how to DVD's on how to do a striptease and a lap dance. I am also in the works to start videoing a daily look in the life of an exotic dancer. Kind of a reality show through myspace, you tube and a website to learn about what I do. This is the first step in learning about me and my daily routines to get my business up and going. Please come by and visit and see where ebyresa is taking me.