Almost the End of The Year and Working on my DVD's

Hello Today is Thursday December 4th. It's been about 3 weeks since I sat down all day and wrote in my blog and worked on the dvd. I work on it everyday but not in full focus. The last month I have been working a lot. My classes and parties are slow but that is usual during the holidays. So the music guy Clive Wright from http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.channel&ChannelID=56629969. NEVER EVER USE HIM OR REFER HIM. He took my money and decided not to let me listen to a music clip and move forward. Also he worked on some clips and decided if he works on any more clips I need to send him more money. The clips he already worked on I wasn't able to use unless I send him another $150.00 to get the copyright from him. I got screwed. He was so hard to work with also. Told me I was unprofessional. Wait I paid him for a service and he was so difficult. I just decided to let him keep my money and move forward. Now I am going to be the composer for my dvd's There is sonic fire royalty free music that I can put into my dvd. I am working on that now. So I am seeing the dvd's done in the next month. I hope. I am looking forward to it. I also met with my web guy and he is putting the clips of the dvd on to my site. You can also check my logo out. I am selling shirts and stuff on cafepress.com/ebyresa. Pass the word on and please buy a shirt. I will also have some to sell at my parties and classes soon. So excited. i love the logo. So I have so many ideas and want to do it all. I am slowing down and working on one project at a time. Finishing the DVD. That is the first project. So my personal life. I have been relaxing a lot and going out some times. I started salsa dancing and loving it. I am working out at the gym downstairs at my condo. I am more doing it for a lifestyle change and not working out to hard. I do about 30-40 minutes of cardio. I also enjoy reading my books when I am working out. It gets me to feel good and also read. The book club is going great. The last book we read was Twilight. So many people are reading it and talking about it. I am seeing the movie tonight. After I read Twilight I read the Secret Lives of Bees. Enjoyed that now I am reading the 2nd book of Twilight, New Moon. The next book in the book club is Life Of Pi. I am happy that I am reading so much this year. Really enjoying it. I have been dating a little bit. Not in the mood lately. Just working on me and the biz. If it happens great. The guys lately I meet are not ambitious or just lazy. They want me to go to them. They don't want to think of a date and it sounds like they just want sex. Be creative guys. I get bored easily and if the first date doesn't spark me there wont be a second. So one more month and it will be 2009. Where did this year go. I can't believe it. I don't have many plans this month. Just working a lot, maybe going to some parties-nothing planned yet. New Years no plans. I would love to go to a nice dinner with good friends. Drink wine and enjoy the night. We will see. I am going to work on the dvd and get some stuff done. Check my site at ebyresa.com and the blog. Talk to you soon. Resa

Step By Step Finishing My DVD

Hello So I am writing weekly. Can you believe it. Today is Wednesday October 29th. I am at Influx Coffee house working on clips and sending it to Clive the music guy. He is putting the music together for my 2 How to DVD's. It is a little more complicated than I imagined. It is also pricier than I was expecting. We will see what happens. I maybe will only have music where there are No Voiceovers and instructions on how to d the moves. I believe it will still look great. Step By Step and I will have the final product. At this time I am 99% sure the clips for both dvds are done. Now we need to organize each one with music. Than we need to make a summary and finish each dvd. I am working now on the 2 dvd covers with my graphic designer. The logo is done but now I need to send her pics and a summary for the back sides of both dvds. I also want each clip from both dvds to be sold on my site and other websites that sell clips, including mindbites, ebay, itunes ect. So much to do. When I have the final product in hand I will be selling them on my site and other fitness and sexy video sites. I want to get my products in many stores around the united states. If anyone knows of any places online or stores please email me or update me. The DVD process is a ton of work but I also am working on the how to striptease cards. I need to finish the summaries. I have a friend editing them now. I also need to finish picking pictures and getting a design box and making the cards look great. On top of that I want to get tshirts made with my logo on them and other products to sell. I am probably going to sell on cafepress.com my website and at my classes. On top of that I want to finish my business plan. So that is what I am doing in my working world. Last weekend I was planning on working and relaxing more but it was a party weekend. Friday night I picked up Newman the cutest English Bulldog. I dog sat him till today. That night my roommate and her friend was getting ready to go out. We went to Bareback and the Ivy. It was a good time. Drank a little to much, went to bed late and the next day I was beat. I sat on my couch all day like a zombie. Saturday night I had a date. Well if you call it a date, we went out to a club. Wasn't planning on going to a club 2 days in a row. We went to Belo. It was fun. I had a good time on the date but I would like to go out just with him next time. Sunday my roommate and some of her friends went on a yacht party. I had a really good time. It was just tough partying 3 days in a row. By 7 I sobered up and was beat. The boat was staying out much later so I decided to take a water taxi to coronado and take a cab back home. I need to walk the dogs and sleep. I needed it. I am still recovering from sleep. This week just working, relaxing watching movies. Last night went to happy hour with a friend, tonight going on a date. I am going to get some work done. Please email me with any ideas or just to say hello. Resa

Recording Taking Off Clothes For My How To DVD's

Hello Today is October 23rd. I am up in Sun City pass Temecula finishing up my DVD. The plan is to have it done by the end of November. Selling the hard copy DVD's by December or the beginning of the year. The clips of the DVD are already being sold individually on mindbites.com and search striptease. Check my site at ebyresa.com and there will be clips of the DVDs to purchase in the next week. Lets see what else. My logo is done. It looks so great. I love it. Check my site soon and you can see it. I will be putting them on tshirts and other products real soon. I am also working on my how to marketing cards. Right now I am going to sell 52 ways to striptease. I am going to finish the summaries and pics and produce those. I am looking forward to having that done by the end of the year. I have been back from Aruba for 2 weeks now. Since I have been back I have been working a lot. During the week I work on the biz, work out in the morning, eating at home more and not drinking that much. Feeling good and refreshed. Last weekend I took it easy. I watched movies, went to a potluck and went on a date. We watched the charger game and enjoyed a nice Sunday. This weekend I am going to work, go out on another date Saturday night. Sunday catch up and watch the Chargers. Halloween is up in the air. During the day I will be working. That night from 7-9 I have a striptease party to teach. After that I am planning on going out with some friends. Dressing up is up in the air. I maybe a school girl. Easy outfit I already have. My goals for the end of the year. Finish both DVD's. finish one set of marketing cards, finish some shirts with the logo on it. Start planning and marketing the sexy girls fitness club for next year. Get some affiliate clothes and toy sites to sell on my site, Sell clips of my dvd all over the states. Spread the word and get many different people to know where they can buy the clips. Another idea is having contributors send in different videos and pictures of there striptease teasing moves. They can win prizes and classes. What do you think of that? Monthly I am still doing sexy women and wine events. I am in the process of starting the exotic networking event again. I miss seeing all my erotic friends. Interested in being at the event or any ideas email me. Well I am going to finish up with some stuff. Check in for more updates and soon video blogs again. See you soon. Resa

Where does Time Go

Hello,
So it's been a while since I wrote. I have had emails and requests to keep writing. I always want to but I get busy and it is another day. I really want to do a daily blog and a video blog about the life of me. I just got back from Aruba a couple days ago. I worked a little bit when I was over there. I decided no more procrastinating. I am working my butt off. The plan- well I started my business plan. That is a long process. I have a lady working on my logo and soon the DVD cover. The logos are looking great. I will be choosing one soon. I am pretty much done with the dvd. I just need to work with the music guy and get the music on the dvd. I also am working on the 52 ways to strip and lap dance how to cards. I am looking at the end of the year one set of cards and the dvds complete. I also need to learn how to use the webcam. I have been getting emails on teaching lessons online. I want to start doing that real soon. I really don't know where time has gone. I feel like I am busy and getting things done, but there is still so much to do. Small Steps. I am also working on opening a sexy flirty fitness studio for women in the next couple months. At this studio I will be teaching classes and workshops on cardio striptease, lap dance, pole, strip pilates, strip yoga, burlesque plus more. Hmm What else.... My social life. So I ended up going to Aruba last week. I went 3 months ago with my gf Rebecca. We had the best time. We ate, drank, snorkeled, got massages, met local guys. One of the guys I met Carsten I went back and visited him last week. I loved Aruba so much I probably had high expectations this time. I just wanted to enjoy Aruba, Carsten and have a good time. I had an okay time. The weather most of the week was heavy rain and thunderstorms. Most of the days I was inside the hotel room. At least at night we went and ate. The food there is really good. I ate a couple places that wasn't that good. The food I had that was great was a fish restaurant and an argentina steak house um yum. The last 2 days the weather was nice and I got a little tan. Yeah. The trip ended on a good note. I still don't see me rushing back there any time soon. No more trips planned here. I have some ideas but right now I want to focus on SD and my biz. Lately I have been waking up at 8ish. I really want to wake up at 7ish and work out start my day and get more stuff done. So my plan is to write at least once a week, video a blog once a week, work on my business plan and finish all my dvds and cards. If you have any ideas or just want to email me email me at ebyresa@gmail.com and check my site at ebyresa.com

Finishing up the Voice Overs for my DVD

Hello,
I can't I wrote 3 weeks ago. Where does the time go. So much is happening. I have been prety busy but in a great way. Today I am in Sun City working and finishing up the editing and voice overs for the 2 DVD's. It is looking good. I have some of the clips on mindbites but soon they will be on my website ebyresa.com. The workshops in May were a lot of fun. The tantra lap dance workshop with Steven Jay had great energy and was fun to teach. I had the Fellatio Hand Job Workshop at the Rubber Rose. There were 22 women. A great success. I have had girls drive hours to my workshop. A couple that night did. I was thinking about how many girls are interested in my classes but don't leave close enough. So the next day I bought a webcam. I am looking into and researching how I can teach classes online. Any one and anywhere can take my lessons. I am going to do BJ and Hand Job Workshops and Striptease and Lap Dance Moves. I am planning on doing live classes and recorded. Email me if interested. Let's see what else my graphic designer is working on my logo and my 2 dvd covers. I also am working on the marketing cards. I have many great, exciting new workshops in June. I am doing the FREE teaser classes on Tuesdays. This Tuesday at 7pm I am starting my Striptease 101 Set of 3. It has been about 7 months since I did this workshop. I am excited to start it again. June 14th I have the BJ Lap Dance Workshop, The 3 hour workshop on June 22nd Exotic Dance Experience- strip, lap, chair and pole. Fellatio Hand Job Workshop and a Free Women and Wine Event. In July I am working with a sushi chef and we are doing an exotic sushi stripease lesson open house night. Exciting. The end of the month I am taking a relaxing vacation with Brian to Aruba. Please tell all your friends about my blog, workshops, DVD's plus more. See you soon. Resa

Editing and Voice Over On Lap Dance DVD's

Yeah We are finally working on lap dancing voice overs. It is looking good. I am so excited. We have already worked on 3 clips. I have been pretty busy since the last time I wrote. Let's see. I had a great birthday. The weekend of my bday Brian made me dinner. Saturday my parents came down and my friend Becky came down from LA. I had a birthday party at Enoteca Style Wine Bar. It was a great turn out. The weekend after Brian surprised me and we went to La Quinta for the weekend. It was so nice. The weather was perfect. We tanned, read, cooked and relaxed. We both needed it. It was a great surprise.
I started a book club with my girlfriends. The first book was Eat Pray Love. There were about 5 of us. We drank, ate, talked about the book and had a very enjoyable evening. The next book we are reading is Three Cups of Tea. I am enjoying that book. I also started to read and learn about being more environmental friendly. I saw on Oprah a show on being green and to read this book Gorgeously Green. I am enjoying that book. I also want to start a Green Club. I don't know if I could get many friends interested in that. I will try,
Lets talk about my classes and work. In general everything is slowing down in the world. I am still getting interest in my classes. Please email me or call me if you are interested. We have some great workshops. Right now Rebecca and I are doing the 4 week exotic dance experience. We have one more class left in the series the Pole. That is next Wednesday in Ocean Beach. This Saturday I am teaming up with Steven who does tantra. We are doing a lap dancing tantra class for couples. Next week I have a BJ Hand Job Workshop at the Rubber Rose. That class is always my most popular. In a couple weeks I am teaming up with the tantra cafe and another adult entertainment networking group. We are having the next FREE exotic networking group. This is a great way to meet open minded businesses and people. Come join us. I am also working on doing a exotic pilates class. I am looking for a wonderful open minded teacher to work with. I believe this class will be FULL every week. Any one interested? I also want to donate a monthly percentage to a new charity. Every class or party I teach I donate to that charity of the month. If you are a charity and interested email me. I have a lot on my plate and I have been working at the club a couple extra days a week. I haven't been focusing on my ideas as much as I would like to. Work at the club has been really slow so I have been working extra to help me out. It is helping me out to get the DVD's out, the 52 ways Cards and t-shirts. You will see this on my website at ebyresa.com real soon. Email me with ideas or comments. Resa

Working on The Striptease DVD

Hi Today is April 23rd. I am in Sun City today working on my striptease DVD. We are doing voiceovers on the walk and the crawl. I hope we get most of the striptease routines done. When I work on the dvd I get a lot done. I finally get a chance to write in the blog. I still need to do video clips of my life and put it on you tube and other video sites. So much is in the works. I have been working at the club a couple extra days a week. Those days I am not on the computer as much getting my name out. Please spread the word about my business. That would be great. What else is happening. A couple weeks ago I had a FREE Erotic Networking group. We teamed up with the Rubber Rose and this other adult entertainment networking group. There was about 30 or more people. It was a great crowd. I met a photographer Gary Wise. He is downtown and I have heard his name before. We talked and brainstormed about some ideas. After the meeting I met with him and discussed some photo class ideas. We also are going to do a cocktail event to introduce our services. We made an appointment next week to take pictures for the cover of my dvd, website and the deck of card idea. I also met with graphic designer. He is going to make my logo, business cards, shirts, dvd covers and another marketing product for people to learn the striptease and lap dance. After I finish these products I am going to start working on the Blow Job and Hand Job DVD and cards. I can't wait to start spreading the word to talk shows, magazines, new stations, news papers, and stores all around. I love teaching it and I can't wait for others to experience. My social life is doing good. This Friday is my birthday. Brian and I will have dinner on Friday and Saturday I am having a bday party. Next week he is taking me out of town. It is a surprise. I am looking forward to it. Yeah. Well I have a lot on my plate and I am looking forward to the dvd and cards to be done and you can check it out. Oh before the final product I am selling clips of each striptease move on a website called mindbites and they will also be on my site soon. Ebyresa.com Email me if you have any comments or questions. Resa

Working on the Editing on the Lap Dance DVD

Today is Wednesday April 9th. Wes the video guy I am working with is over and we are going through the lap dance clips. This is the first time I saw the clips. It is looking good. We haven't met up and worked on the dvd for a couple weeks. Now that we are working on it I notice we still have a lot to do. I am really excited but it takes longer than I thought. I am not in to much of a rush but I have some great ideas in store. I want to have a dvd release party. I also will be selling clips of the walk, hip rolls, crawl ect. to practice on on your computer or ipod. I will also be making a card set on striptease lap dance lessons. When the final products are done I will be looking into talk shows, news shows, magazines and more media. If anyone has any ideas I would love to hear about it. Other things I have been doing is last week I had the exotic networking group at the rubber rose. We teamed up with another networking group, and a sex positive meet up group and the rubber rose. There was about 30 people at the event. It was great. I made some connections. One photographer that I spoke to had some great ideas. We are going to meet next week and brainstorm and think of some great parties and workshops that we can work on. Lets see I have been working a couple extra days a week at the club. The last couple weeks the club is getting busier and people are wanting dances. That is a good thing.
Brian and I have been doing the date idea weekends. A couple weeks ago we went up to Los Angeles for the dodger red sox game at the coliseum. It was a different experience. That weekend was a fun weekend all together. He played golf with my dad. I hung out with my mom and Grandma Dorothy. I also got to see Grandma Tessie. We went out to breakfast with a couple girlfriends and I ran into a friend from highschool. I haven't seen her in years. It was nice to catch up. Sunday we drove back to SD. We went to Karen and Kholas for a street faire. We partied, ate sushi, and karaoked. That was a long crazy weekend. Last week I worked a lot and the weekend I had 2 at home parties. Sunday went to the padre game and a bbq. I have a couple workshops coming up. I have teaser classes, the 4 week exotic dance experience and a Fellatio Hand Job Workshop. Keep in touch and I will also be writing the life of an exotic dance instructor. R

Reshooting the Intro and About me for the DVD

Hi It is Thursday March 13th. I am back in Sun City near Temecula working on my 2 how to DVD's. I got here around 10am. We decided to reshoot the introduction and about me section for the DVD's. I liked how I looked and presented myself during the first try but my eyes were not looking into the camera. I want my audience to feel that I am talking to them and I have confidence through my eyes. We taped it again with a different back drop. It is looking good. I can't wait to start doing voice overs and seeing the final product. Since the last time I wrote, Friday day I worked at the club. It was a great day. Lately business has been slow but Friday was a busy day. I worked till 9pm. After work I went to Pacific Beach for a drink. Saturday was date day with Brian. We had breakfast and played golf. The last time I played golf was about 3 years ago. I had a great day and I had pretty good control with the ball. That night we went to dinner at Wet Stone. We were planning on listening to music at house of blues but we ended up watching a movie back at his house. It was a great day. Sunday I relaxed and went to dog park with my roommate. We had some gelato and that night went to Modus for dinner. Monday I worked at the club. Another decent day. That night I met up with Brian and his friends for dinner and drinks. Tuesday I worked on my business, did some errands and met up with Karen. We went bowling, and to some bars Downtown. Yesterday I worked on some email marketing. I met up with Kypris a tantra teacher. We planned a class next month. It is a tantra lap dance class for couples. Looking forward to that. Last night I met with my cousin and his work partner for dinner. Already a busy day. I will be leaving Sun City around 6pm tonight. Tomorrow I am working at the club. This weekend is my date day. I will keep you updated on my life and my workshops. R

Working on My Business

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Editing and Voiceovers

Today I am near Temecula with the video guy Wes working on my 2 how to DVD's on Striptease and Lap Dance. I am so excited that I am finally in the stages of videoing, editing and having a finished product. What I have seen so far looks awesome. About a month ago we started taping the striptease section at my girlfriends Karen's house. I did the introduction, each step in 2 outfits on the walk, hip rolls, squat, crawl, floor routines and using the wall instead of the pole. A couple weeks ago we videoed the lap dancing part at my friend Stephens house. He is the guy who is the DVD and getting lap dances. He enjoyed that. It was fun to see this process move forward. Right now we are going through the tape and editing it and doing voice overs. After this process I will be taking different clips of each move and selling the clips on my website, through different websites and hopefully itunes. Than we will video some classes of mine and edit it into the DVD's. I believe the final product will take place the beginning of April. Finally!!!! When I am done with this video I will get in touch with advertising it on TV, magazines, online plus more. I have many ideas for the DVD. After this is done I am planning on making a book and cards with pictures on them and the other side has the description from that move.
Lets see what else, I was teaching a Blow Job Lap Dance Workshop with my sexologist friend Sayaka. She moved and is traveling to nudist resorts this year. I started teaching both classes. I am having so much fun teaching that class. I teach and show pics on circumcise and uncircumcise, flacid and hard penises, swallow or not to swallow and we do hands on blow job and hand job techniques using dildos, cucumbers or bananas. If this class takes off like my exotic dance lessons I will be planning on videoing a BJ Hand Job DVD. So much is happening. I also want to do a reality series on my life. It is a little harder than I thought. I may need an agent, an attorney ect. If I don't get on TV I may do a online reality series. Any ideas. If you are interested in any classes, workshops, FREE events please email me at ebyresa@gmail.com and check my site at ebyresa.com

Happy New Year

Wow! Where does time go. Happy New Year. I went to Boston Cape Cod and New York to bring in the new year. It was pretty chilly but a lot of fun. I got back last Friday night relaxed this weekend and yesterday staring my week off right. I have some great workshops starting next week. Sunday Sayaka and I are having 2 BJ and Lap Dance Workshops. One filled up fast so we opened another one. This will be the last time we will be teaching this class. She is moving out of SD for over a year. I will miss her. I will be starting to teach the BJ Lap Class starting next month. Next Tuesday Rebecca another exotic dance teacher are teaming up and staring a 4 week 6 hour series on the exotic dance experience. In this workshop women will learn the striptease moves, chair dance routines, lap dance routines and the basics of the pole. I am really excited about this workshop. I am also still in the works of finding the right person to help me with my how to dvds on striptease and lap dancing. I am going to start doing video casting on my life of an exotic dance teacher for you all to watch. It would be great to hear feedback and any ideas you have. Looking forward to a great 2008. See you all soon. Resa